Fellow wiccans I need help with 2 things!?

I'm with identity crisis to be honest. I have learned that it is best for me to take ideals that i agree with from all walks of life but to not conform to one single one. we don't need a religious system to tell us what is good and right in this reality. just like we don't need a government to tell us that murder is wrong. look with in the heart and you cant go wrong. take the power back, one love and blessings